3 Incredible Ways to Reach the Elusive Female Orgasm

Some describe it as a pulsating feeling that ricochets through their bodies as their back muscles tense like the strings of a bow drawn to their full potential, while some experience temporary blackouts as they breakout in sweat, and afterward, a spiralling feeling in their heads - each Orgasm is different and unique. Women experience orgasm in various intensities and sensations in their full glory. But research says that only one fourth of all women experience the Big O every time they have sex. The others either experience it if they are lucky and their partner doesn't change what he is doing right when the tension starts to build, or simply don't experience it at all.

Some women just have to fake it all the time. Nature intended for us to have sex so that the human species could keep rolling out, which is why there is such a ballyhoo about male orgasms anyway. On whether a man ejaculates or not depends the sustenance of the human race, but what about the female O? We are entitled to our moment of intense sensation coupled with light headedness and that sweet, sweet feeling of spiralling down from the clouds, as we return to reality in the arms of our partner.

The female Orgasm has been elusive, the unicorn of sex, for most women till now. But all that is set to change, as we figure out fine ways for you to achieve the mysterious O. Go no more without Orgasm - you are a woman and you deserve it!

These sex positions increase chances of female orgasm in heterosexual love making. Some of them are new, while some are old ones with new twists put to them to heighten your sensations during the nookie!

1. Lifted Missionary - It’s just like the standard missionary but with a slight twist to the old grinding session. To achieve this position, both partners need to lie down on bed with the man on top. Slip a pillow or two under the woman buttocks to raise her pelvis so that her upper torso is lower than her buttocks. Entering her in this position ensures more friction on the front wall of the woman’s vagina, where the G spot is located, and because of the angle that the clitoris is in, the clitoral stimulation is also intensified. This increases the chances of the woman’s orgasm.
2. Lowered Doggy Style - This one’s at the top of the charts for men. It has already been proved that men AND women love the Doggy Style in bed, since it provides for much friction for both partners, and now with this latest twist to the old favorite, the woman would be left wanting more and more! The man stands at the edge of the bed while the woman goes down on all her fours, but instead of remaining propped up on her hands and knees, she lowers her torso keeping the buttocks raised. The man enters her from the back and for more leverage he can lie on top of her or lower himself to adjust the height. Lowering the woman’s buttocks means her clitoris gets more stimulation either from grinding against the bed, or by the man’s fingers. The woman can also reach down to touch herself. Men describe seeing women touching themselves as ‘incredibly hot!’
3. Woman on Top - This one absolutely takes the cake. It is the ultimate sexy position that both men and women equally love, men because of the view (and who doesn't know men are wired to get turned on by visual stimulation more than women) and women because they get to be in charge of the mattress dancing. She leads, so to say, deciding the pressure she wants on her clitoris, the pace of the movement and also the angle at which she is more comfortable in. Men also like this position because, let’s face it, every once in a while they’d like the woman to take charge of things while she does all the hard work.

The Woman on Top position allows for clitoral stimulation since the woman is perpendicular to the man’s torso, and she can control the stimulation of her clitoris.

Strong pelvic floor muscles enhance the sensation of orgasms, and women who practice their kegels feel more intense orgasms. Kegel balls are of great help for these exercises, and the key to toe curling, back arching orgasms.